The best way to measure your investing success is not by whether you're beating the market but by whether you've put in place a financial plan and a behavioral discipline that are likely to get you where you want to go.
君子不用水来当镜子,而是拿别人来当镜子。用水当镜子可以看到的是容貌,用人当镜子则可以知道吉凶对错。