你必须愿意成长。成长不同于发生在你身上的事情，而是你自己创造的。你活在其中。成长的前提是：对经历保持开放的心态，并愿意被它们改变。

We are to remember that we are not to take anything with us out of this world, and that it is how we have conducted ourselves here that will matter in the end.

人不是物中的物；物相互决定，但人最终是自我决定的。

The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.