常常,我们对一个成功人生的想象,不是来自我们自己,而是来自他人。如果你是个男人,你会以父亲做榜样,如果你是个女人,你会以母亲做榜样,精神分析已经重复说了80年,但很少有人真正听进去。但我的确相信这件事。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.
When something is important enough, you do it even if the odds are not in your favor.
Art is not a mirror to reflect reality, but a hammer with which to shape it.
I believe in the power of storytelling. It's how we connect, how we understand each other.
君子的话虽然少,但却真实;小人的话虽然多,但却虚假。点评:东汉著名学者王符曾言「大人不华,君子务实。」
艺术并非模仿生活,而是生活在模仿艺术。
有三样东西我一直热爱却从未理解——艺术、音乐和女人。
我不遵循任何特定的理论,我只做我认为正确的事。