The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty; not knowing what comes next.

"You have to believe in yourself when no one else does."

美是关于体验。

成功的秘诀是学会如何使用痛苦和快乐，而不是让痛苦和快乐使用你。如果你这样做，你就控制了你的生活。如果你不这样做，生活就会控制你。

In other words, hold your horses when you're coming to judge people. You don't necessarily know what someone's truevalue is. That is an unknown part of them, and we shouldn't behave as though it is known. There is another source of solace and comfort for all this. When we think about failing in life, when we think about failure, one of the reasons why we fear failing is not just a loss of income, a loss of status. What we fear is the judgment and ridicule of others. And it exists.