一个奇怪的悖论是,当我接受自己本来的样子时,我就能改变。
礼义廉耻,可以用来要求自己,不可用来要求别人。要求自己则能少犯过失,要求别人则难以与人和睦相处,难以与他人相处就不合乎处世之道。所以君子只严格要求自己,小人则对别人求全责备。
If you are going through hell, keep going.
The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there.