阳气初动本是自然现象，刻意执着反而落入形相。

I keep thinking about this river somewhere, with the water moving really fast. And these two people in the water, trying to hold onto each other, holding on as hard as they can, but in the end it’s just too much. The current’s too strong. They’ve got to let go, drift apart.

You can’t control what happens to you, but you can control how you respond.