要摧毁一种文化，你不必烧书。只要让人们停止阅读它们。

Grief is not linear. It doesn't follow a neat trajectory from denial to acceptance.

At twenty-one, I was a divorced single mother. At thirty, I was struggling to feed my children. At forty, I was starting over in a new country. At fifty, I was rebuilding my career. At sixty, I walked the runway at Fashion Week. Life begins at every age—if you dare to make a plan.

I don’t know if we each have a destiny, or if we’re all just floating around accidental—like on a breeze.