Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.
现代国家的创建是一个复杂而困难的过程，需要发展强大的制度。
"Sometimes, the best way to solve a problem is to avoid it altogether."