「You’ll get 10x better results by elevating good behavior rather than punishing bad behavior， especially in children and animals.」- 凯文·凯利经典语录

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You’ll get 10x better results by elevating good behavior rather than punishing bad behavior， especially in children and animals.

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💡 解读： 想要得到10倍好的结果，应该通过表扬好的行为而不是惩罚坏的行为。这在儿童和动物身上尤其明显。
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要想把子女教育好，把准备花的钱削减一半，同时陪伴孩子的时间增加一倍。
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存钱和投资都是好习惯。几十年来不加思索地定期投资少量资金，是通往财富的一条道路。
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如何道歉：快速、具体、真诚。
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我最终发现，想要得到和生命真正类似的行为，不是设法创造出真正复杂的生物，而是给简单的生物提供一个极其丰饶的变异环境。
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为了丰厚的回报，请对你完全不感兴趣的事物保持好奇。
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人生的课程将以它们需要的顺序出现在你面前。任何你需要掌握的课程其实都在你身上。当你真正掌握了一节课之后，下一节课就会出现。如果你还活着，这就意味着你还有课程需要学习。
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一个智者曾经说过，“在你开口之前，先让你的语言经过三道门的检验。第一道门是问你自己，‘这是真话吗？’第二道门是‘这是必要的吗？’第三道门是‘这是善的吗？’”
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成为你自己想要看到的那种改变。
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Be a pro. Back up your back up. Have at least one physical backup and one backup in the cloud. Have more than one of each. How much would you pay to retrieve all your data， photos， notes， if you lost them？ Backups are cheap compared to regrets.
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及时支付你的欠款给卖主、员工、承包商。下一次，他们会第一时间跑来跟你合作。
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表面看起来糟糕的事，本质上却往往并非如此。
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我绝不坚信这个时代没有放之四海而皆准的正义和良善的价值观，它们不仅仅有，而且不是朝令夕改流动无常的，它们是稳定而永恒的。
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人人为我，我为人人。
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Whenever there is an argument between two sides， find the third side.
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Efficiency is highly overrated； Goofing off is highly underrated. Regularly scheduled sabbaths， sabbaticals， vacations， breaks， aimless walks and time off are essential for top performance of any kind. The best work ethic requires a good rest ethic.
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When you lead， your real job is to create more leaders， not more followers.
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Criticize in private， praise in public. 
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Life lessons will be presented to you in the order they are needed. Everything you need to master the lesson is within you. Once you have truly learned a lesson， you will be presented with the next one. If you are alive， that means you still have lessons to learn.
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It is the duty of a student to get everything out of a teacher， and the duty of a teacher to get everything out of a student.
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If winning becomes too important in a game， change the rules to make it more fun. Changing rules can become the new game.
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Ask funders for money， and they’ll give you advice； but ask for advice and they’ll give you money.
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Productivity is often a distraction. Don’t aim for better ways to get through your tasks as quickly as possible， rather aim for better tasks that you never want to stop doing.
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Immediately pay what you owe to vendors， workers， contractors. They will go out of their way to work with you first next time.
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The biggest lie we tell ourselves is “I don‘t need to write this down because I will remember it.”
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Speak confidently as if you are right， but listen carefully as if you are wrong.
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Handy measure: the distance between your fingertips of your outstretched arms at shoulder level is your height.
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The consistency of your endeavors (exercise， companionship， work) is more important than the quantity. Nothing beats small things done every day， which is way more important than what you do occasionally.
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Making art is not selfish； it’s for the rest of us. If you don’t do your thing， you are cheating us.
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Never ask a woman if she is pregnant. Let her tell you if she is.
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Three things you need: The ability to not give up something till it works， the ability to give up something that does not work， and the trust in other people to help you distinguish between the two.
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When public speaking， pause frequently. Pause before you say something in a new way， pause after you have said something you believe is important， and pause as a relief to let listeners absorb details.
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There is no such thing as being “on time.” You are either late or you are early. Your choice.
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Spend as much time crafting the subject line of an email as the message itself because the subject line is often the only thing people read.
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Don’t wait for the storm to pass； dance in the rain.
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When checking references for a job applicant， employers may be reluctant or prohibited from saying anything negative， so leave or send a message that says， “Get back to me if you highly recommend this applicant as super great.” If they don’t reply take that as a negative.
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Use a password manager: Safer， easier， better.
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Keep all your things visible in a hotel room， not in drawers， and all gathered into one spot. That way you’ll never leave anything behind. If you need to have something like a charger off to the side， place a couple of other large items next to it， because you are less likely to leave 3 items behind than just one.
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Denying or deflecting a compliment is rude. Accept it with thanks， even if you believe it is not deserved.
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Always read the plaque next to the monument.
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When you have some success， the feeling of being an imposter can be real. Who am I fooling？ But when you create things that only you — with your unique talents and experience — can do， then you are absolutely not an imposter. You are the ordained. It is your duty to work on things that only you can do.
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Make stuff that is good for people to have.
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When you open paint， even a tiny bit， it will always find its way to your clothes no matter how careful you are. Dress accordingly.
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To keep young kids behaving on a car road trip， have a bag of their favorite candy and throw a piece out the window each time they misbehave.
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When you don’t know how much to pay someone for a particular task， ask them “what would be fair” and their answer usually is.
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90% of everything is crap. If you think you don’t like opera， romance novels， TikTok， country music， vegan food， NFTs， keep trying to see if you can find the 10% that is not crap.
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We tend to overestimate what we can do in a day， and underestimate what we can achieve in a decade. Miraculous things can be accomplished if you give it ten years. A long game will compound small gains to overcome even big mistakes.
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Thank a teacher who changed your life.
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You can‘t reason someone out of a notion that they didn’t reason themselves into. 
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By used books. They have the same words as the new ones. Also libraries.
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You can be whatever you want， so be the person who ends meetings early.
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