You don't have to be a victim of your environment. You can be the victor of your environment.
To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness.
有些人是亲戚却不像亲人,而有的人不是亲戚却比亲人更亲近;兄弟之间如果互相伤害,那还不如朋友。