For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.
事情在最得意时要防乐极生悲,话说到最忘形时要防言中有失。
"A writer is someone for whom writing is more difficult than it is for other people."
除非一个人绝对诚实地问自己在类似情况下是否可能做出同样的事,否则他不应评判他人。