The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.

成为作家就是要承认我们内心携带的秘密伤口，那些永远不会愈合的伤口，它们定义了我们是谁。

我相信掌握他人已经发现的最佳知识的纪律。

Writing is a way of making sense of the world.

解析：修行在于减少私欲。