效法的人如果不仁义，我们就不可以效法他。治理国家，管理人民应当要以人为本，用仁义管理世俗。

对正确的需要，是我们庸俗思想的标志。

The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.

过去从未死去，它甚至还未过去。

The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about.

For me they normally happen, these career crises, often, actually, on a Sunday evening, just as the sun is starting to set, and the gap between my hopes for myself and the reality of my life starts to diverge so painfully that I normally end up weeping into a pillow.