爱情犹如佛家的禅，不可说，一说就是错。

宋志平

她站在窗前，看着窗外的世界，感觉自己像是一个局外人，与这一切都格格不入。她的内心充满了孤独和迷茫，不知道自己该何去何从。

I was working at a financial firm in New York City with a bunch of very smart people， and I had a brilliant boss that I much admired. I went to my boss and told him I wanted to start a company selling books on the Internet. He took me on a long walk in Central Park， listened carefully to me， and finally said， "That sounds like a really good idea， but it would be an even better idea for someone who didn't already have a good job." That logic made some sense to me， and he convinced me to think about it for 48 hours before making a final decision. Seen in that light， it really was a difficult choice， but ultimately， I decided I had to give it a shot. I didn't think I'd regret trying and failing. And I suspected I would always be haunted by a decision to not try at all. After much consideration， I took the less safe path to follow my passion， and I'm proud of that choice.

我当时在纽约一家金融公司工作，同事是一群非常聪明的人，我的老板也很有智慧，我很羡慕他。我告诉我的老板我想开办一家在网上卖书的公司。他带我在中央公园漫步良久，认真地听我讲完，最后说："听起来真是一个很好的主意，但是对那些目前没有谋到一份好工作的人来说，这个主意会更好。"这一逻辑对我而言颇有道理，他说服我在最终作出决定之前再考虑48小时。那样想来，这个决定确实很艰难，但是最终，我决定拼一次。我认为自己不会为尝试过后的失败而遗憾，倒是有所决定但完全不付诸行动会一直煎熬着我。在深思熟虑之后，我选择了那条不安全的道路，去追随我内心的热情。我为那个决定感到骄傲。

杰夫·贝索斯

好男不争财和产，好女不争嫁时衣。

谚语

时间是最厉害的杀手，它无声无息地抹去一切。《天香》

王安忆

我宁愿独自一人，也不愿与错误的人为伍。

苏·格拉夫顿

金钱是一种工具，没有任何价值，它本身也没有好坏之分。

泰德·克劳福德

朋友妻，不可欺。

谚语

表演不是要成为不同的人，而是在明显不同的事物中找到相似之处，然后在那里找到自己。