A wise man said, “Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates. At the first gate, ask yourself, “Is it true?” At the second gate ask, “Is it necessary?” At the third gate ask, “Is it kind?”
The question is not, Can they reason? nor, Can they talk? but, Can they suffer?
想要了解一个人,就听听他是如何评价他人的,这远比听信别人对他的评价来得彻底。