选择理论忽略了大多数人类行为是基于习惯而非精心计算的决策这一事实。

She's simply too strange. We can't relate to her, she speaks in a funny way, she comes from an odd place. So we can't relate to her, and when you can't relate to somebody, you don't envy them. The closer two people are -- in age, in background, in the process of identification -- the more there's a danger of envy, which is incidentally why none of you should ever go to a school reunion, because there is no stronger reference point than people one was at school with.

领导力在于让他人因你的存在而变得更好，并确保这种影响在你离开后依然持续。

Every story is a journey, and every journey changes the traveler.