I don't think you can ever really prepare for the loss of someone you love.
The very essence of romance is uncertainty.
每种心理状态都是大脑某种物理状态的功能。
Spend each day trying to be a little wiser than you were when you woke up.Discharge your duties faithfully and well.Systematically you get ahead, but not necessarily in fast spurts...At the end of the day if you live long enough most people get what they deserve.