To understand behavior, look for the utility in it.
The reality is: sometimes you lose. And you’re never too good to lose. You’re never too big to lose. You’re never too smart to lose. It happens.
The stranger is close to us, insofar as we feel between him and ourselves common features of a national, social, occupational, or generally human, nature. He is far from us, insofar as these common features extend beyond him or us, and connect us only because they connect a great many people.
I'm not a soldier, I'm not a warrior, I'm just a storyteller.
风中潇潇洒洒、自由自在飘舞的花瓣,雪夜里皎洁空灵的明月,这些让人心旷神怡的景致,只有内心宁静的人,才能真正欣赏到它们的美;水边树木的一枯一荣,竹林间石头的一长一缩,这些细微变化,只有闲适的人才能掌握和欣赏。