The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it.
The best architecture comes from a synthesis of all the elements that separately comprise a building: the structure that holds it up; the services that allow it to function; the ecology of the building - its relationship to the surroundings; the quality of natural light; the symbolism of the form; the relationship of the building to the skyline.
It doesn't matter what your background is or where you come from, if you have dreams and goals, that's all that matters.
The most basic question is not what is best, but who shall decide what is best.