You don't love because: you love despite; not for the virtues, but despite the faults.
在不确定的时代,唯一确定的就是变化本身。
我不完美,但我始终是我自己。
In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?