南怀瑾:诸法的本来面目就是空相,诸法的实相亦是空相,诸法未曾离开空相,故云是诸法空相……一切法的实相是空,是故一切法从本以来,不生不灭,不垢不净,不增不减。
You are not the opinion of someone who doesn't know you.
避免痛苦的唯一方法就是不要有足够的闲暇去思考你是否快乐。