Every time you make a choice, you are turning the central part of you into something a little different from what it was before.
苦难!我们所有美好的品质、生命中的价值都归功于它;我们因它而怜悯,因它而勇敢,因它而拥有所有美德。
【译文】 孔子说:“君子和睦相处而不同流合污,小人同流合污而不能和睦相处。”
It's not about how you look, it's about how you see yourself.