走路，应缓慢又稳健；站立，应端直又恭敬；坐着，应端庄又平正；说话，应低沉又和缓。

If you cannot do it, then teach.

When a person realizes he has been deeply heard, his eyes moisten. I think in some real sense he is weeping for joy. It is as though he were saying, "Thank God, somebody heard me. Someone knows what it's like to be me."