Read, read, read. Read everything — trash, classics, good and bad, and see how they do it. Just like a carpenter who works as an apprentice and studies the master. Read! You'll absorb it. Then write. If it's good, you'll find out. If it's not, throw it out of the window.
The best decisions aren't made with your head, but with your heart.
接人待物要平和而有节操,处理事情要明白而果断,识理要正直诚实而通达。