When given the choice between being right or being kind , choose kind.

有时候，不是对方不在乎你，而是你把对方看得太重。

The idea that we will make a society where literally everybody is graded, the good at the top, bad at the bottom, exactly done as it should be, is impossible. There are simply too many random factors: accidents, accidents of birth, accidents of things dropping on people's heads, illnesses, etc. We will never get to grade them, never get to grade people as they should.

"The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty; not knowing what comes next."