我不想孤单，我想被单独留下。

You want to be extra rigorous about making the best possible thing you can. Find everything that's wrong with it and fix it. Seek negative feedback, particularly from friends.

精神生活是对环境的持续调整。

人生的主要任务就是：识别和区分事物，这样我就能清楚地告诉自己哪些是外部不可控的，哪些是我实际可控的选择。