I've learned that you can't have everything and do everything at the same time.

The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places.

晏子春秋

深刻沉着、忠厚笃信，是第一等的禀赋；直率开朗、豪迈雄健，是第二等的禀赋；明智聪慧、能言善辩，是第三等的禀赋。