I've learned that you can't have everything and do everything at the same time.
The world breaks everyone, and afterward, some are strong at the broken places.
深刻沉着、忠厚笃信,是第一等的禀赋;直率开朗、豪迈雄健,是第二等的禀赋;明智聪慧、能言善辩,是第三等的禀赋。