你越爱自己，就越不能容忍废话。

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to Heaven, we were all doing direct the other way.

To write is to explore the boundaries of the self.

译文：做任何事只要恪守规范，坚守底线，就一定不会出大错；一生只要丰衣足食，就可称得上小康之家。赏析：谨言慎行，恪守底线，是做人的原则。无病无痛，饿有饭菜吃，冷有衣服穿，这也许就是人生最大的幸福。

不是别人而去拥有，不是人却没有它，那就不是墨了。所以不能凭个人喜好行事的人，他说的话你可以接受，但是也可以反驳。这就叫“非人而有之”；如果自己都接受了别人的意见，那就是不合情也不合理。一个团体里都需要有共同意愿的人。如果大家都要这样去做决策的话，那就没有了。大家各为其主而行又互相矛盾，这个时候我们就没有办法去正确进行判断和选择了！这句话反映出在处理问题时要坚持从整体出发的原则。而每个人要根据自己的实际情况考虑下问题，这样才能保证社会、国家正常运转和发展。所以我们对待事物要秉持客观冷静的态度；也正如孔子所说：“己所不欲勿施于人！”做人呢？一定是要以对方为重为本的！无论你做什么事情也好，做什么都不能违背内心去强求。这个世界上没有无缘无故的爱也没有无缘无故的恨。只有对得起自己才有可能得到幸福！