Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.
"I’m a normal guy who just happens to play tennis well."
The only thing that matters is what you do, not what you think or say or feel.
现代性是一项未完成的计划。