不要告诉别人怎么做，告诉他们做什么，让他们用结果给你惊喜。

I'm just trying to be a good person and live a good life and make good decisions and be a good mom and a good wife and a good friend.

People who cannot say no, cannot say yes meaningfully either.

Consciousness is a process, not a substance.

要理解一个人，你必须先理解他们的沉默。