The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.
真实的是整体。
君子会因人恭维赞美自己而疏远他，也会因对自己之言劝谏和他成为亲密的朋友。
The best way to predict the future is to create it.