译文：教育小孩子应当严厉对待，严厉的态度能平定孩子心中的浮躁之气；对待小人应当用敬待的态度，敬待的态度可以感化其心中的邪气，即使感化不了，也可使自己免于被其所害。

Perhaps the most counter-intuitive truth of the universe is that the more you give to others， the more you’ll get. Understanding this is the beginning of wisdom.

Claiming your 20s is one of the simplest, yet most transformative, things you can do for work, for love, for your happiness, maybe even for the world.

解析：君子要求的是自己，小人要求的是别人。

We live in an age that reads too much to be wise, and thinks too much to be beautiful.

文字的力量可以改变世界。