有福伤财，无福伤己。
有福之人遭到不幸只是损失钱财，无福之人遭遇不幸则会伤及性命。
Twenty years of romance make a woman look like a ruin; but twenty years of marriage make her look like a public building.
"We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars."
对心灵的研究就是对生活应对机制的研究。