相形不如论心,论心不如择术。
出自先秦《荀子·非相》。察看一个人的外貌,不如用心体察他的心理;体察他的心理,不如考察他做事的方法。说明对人的考察应当重视其内心与做事的方法,而不应该停留在外表的体貌特征上。
One does not ask of one who suffers: What is your country and what is your religion? One merely says: You suffer, that is enough for me.