改变某人最有效的方法是改变你与他们互动的方式。

"Every story is a journey, and every journey changes the traveler."

In the long history of humankind (and animal kind, too) those who learned to collaborate and improvise most effectively have prevailed.  

你不能让自己感觉到你感觉不到的东西，但你可以不顾自己的感受去做正确的事情。

"Language is violence, and I am its victim."

最终，我们都是故事。