江河不恶小谷之满己也,故能大。圣人者,事无辞也,物无违也,故能为天下器。
江河不嫌弃用小溪的水来灌注自己,所以能汇成巨流。被称为圣人的人,不推辞难事,不违背自然规律,所以能成为名扬天下的大人物。
No one likes being alone. We just don't want to make friends reluctantly. If we did that, we'd probably just be disappointed.
拥有众多军队不能得到军心,这和单人行动有什么区别呢?