If the only prayer you said was 'Thank you', that would be enough.
The past, like the future, is indefinite and exists only as a spectrum of possibilities.
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.
楚国的狂人接舆唱歌路过孔子车旁,说:“凤啊!凤啊!你怎么这样倒霉?过去的不可挽回,未来的还可以赶上。算了!算了!现在的执政者很危险!”
要找到自己,就要为自己思考。