过去是一个异国他乡；他们做事的方式不同。

人不是物中的物；物相互决定，但人最终是自我决定的。

Before you are old， attend as many funerals as you can bear， and listen. Nobody talks about the departed’s achievements. The only thing people will remember is what kind of person you were while you were achieving.

不带评判地观察是最高形式的智慧。