I just go. I just go. I just keep going until it feels right to me,” Kobe says of his habits. “If something doesn’t feel right, I’m gonna stay there until I get it right. I just continue to keep pushing and pushing and pushing. That’s all I’ve known. That’s how my parents raised me. If you’re going to be focused on something, if you want to do something, you can’t, you can’t go about it in a half-assed way. You really gotta dedicate yourself to it, try to be the best at it. That’s the only way.

头脑风暴、即兴以及与其他人合奏的时候，如果你可以充满兴致地表示「是的，而且……」并愿意在彼此的基础上更进一步，而不是令人泄气地表示「不是，而是……」的话，那么你将会走得更远更深。