出自先秦《荀子·修身》。批评我而又批评得恰当的，他便是我的老师；肯定我而又实事求是的，他便是我的朋友；讨好奉承我的，他便是我的仇人。说明修身养性要有闻过则喜的雅量，要亲近正人君子而远离谄谀小人。这样，才会有利于自己道德的修炼进步。
Life is a training for the soul.
"The silence between words is as important as the words themselves; it is where the unsaid resides."
字与字之间的沉默和字本身一样重要；那是未言之处的所在。
The fundamental job of a kid is to be selfish—to pursue their own needs and desires—and the fundamental job of a parent is to be selfless.