I've learned that you can't control what other people think of you, but you can control what you think of yourself.
译文:头顶三尺之高,一定会有监督行为的神明;所以无论是收获福祉,还是避开祸难都是由自身决定的。
婚姻虽然在中国被鼓励,但并不是因为生儿育女能带给他们福分,而是因为他们有生杀他们儿女的自由。