If you’re not making mistakes, you’re not trying hard enough.
I think it's important to have closure in any relationship that ends - from a romantic relationship to a friendship.
That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.
感恩释放了生命的丰盛。它将我们所拥有的变成足够,甚至更多。它将拒绝变成接受,混乱变成秩序,困惑变成清晰。它可以将一顿饭变成盛宴,一所房子变成家,一个陌生人变成朋友。
Waste is just raw material in the wrong place.