Part of what you must learn is how to handle mistakes and new facts that change the odds.Life, in part, is like a poker game wherein you have to learn to quit sometimes when holding a much-loved hand.

We're not gonna give you no breakup song

最痛苦的事莫过于在过分爱一个人的过程中失去自我，忘记了自己也很特别。

The process is the art; the product is just evidence.