君子的学问，关键在于自身。外界的毁誉荣辱，不仅不会动摇其心志，反而会成为磨砺自己的机会。

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart."

Behavior is determined by the interaction of drive and habit strength.

追求幸福不仅仅是寻求快乐，还包括在生活中找到意义和目标。

Change is uncomfortable, but stagnation is fatal.

事实是，除非你放手，除非你原谅自己，除非你原谅这种情况，除非你意识到这种情况已经结束，否则你无法前进。