You can't manage what you don't measure.

The only obsession everyone wants: ‘love.’ People think that in falling in love they make themselves whole? The Platonic union of souls? I think otherwise. I think you’re whole before you begin. And the love fractures you. You’re whole, and then you’re cracked open.

"Identity is a story we tell ourselves, and sometimes we have to rewrite it."

You can't control who loves you, but you can control who you love.