年轻人真爱的第一个表现是胆怯。

在爱情中我们都是傻瓜。

生活就是忍受，在混乱中找到意义，尽管痛苦也要继续前进。

唯一剩下的真正反抗就是拒绝参与世界的疯狂。

At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.

光是建筑的魔术师。