You can't get mad at anybody else for your own mistakes.
I'm not good at pretending. I'm not good at lying. I'm not good at being something I'm not.
看一个人的操守,在其利害得失时;看一个人的精力,在其饥饿疲倦时;看一个人的度量,在其面临喜怒哀乐时;看一个人的沉着,在其有惊吓时。