身份是我们讲给自己听的故事，有时我们必须重写它。

To utter a performative is not to make a statement， and therefore the utterance of a performative is neither true nor false.

I can’t relate to lazy people. We don’t speak the same language. I don’t understand you. I don’t want to understand you.

墙上那个嘲笑你的时钟，可能是你老板的；但是朋友，时间是你自己的。