Assume life will be really tough, and then ask if you can handle it.If the answer is yes, you've won.

译文：惹下大祸是因为嘴巴乱说话，招致罪过是因为做事太狠心了。赏析：舌为利害本，口是祸福门。说话不慎就会惹下大祸。做事刻薄寡恩，冷酷无情，没有一点人情味，就会招来别人的怨恨和报复。