When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.
The poet is a man who plants a tree and then sits in its shade.
问话不答或话说不停都是一般说话的病态，以莺歌燕语令人悦耳之语治疗。心中难舍或有所忘记，都是一种为情痴迷，要以鹰飞鱼跃的开阔气度化解。
解析：反对将心与理、物分开。